How To Invest In Yourself As A Woman (When You Don't Feel "Good Enough")

Well, that is a loaded question, don’t you think? But a real question, and it is important that we are honest and real with ourselves as the first step to finding the solution.

You cannot pour from an empty cup.

We know that this is a feeling that many women go through too often; imposter syndrome, anyone? 

Learning how to invest in yourself as a woman even when you are not feeling 100% is tough but completely achievable. 

Here are five amazing ways that we are going to show you exactly how to get this done the right way! 

So that you can live up to your full potential and beyond!

How to invest in yourself as a woman through setting boundaries and valuing mental and emotional health (therapy) (social usage)

Way #1 to Invest in Yourself as a Woman: Set Boundaries 

Getting your boundaries and priorities straight is the next step in learning how to invest in yourself as a woman. 

Boundaries are a place that we can lack sometimes, but once we put them in place and stick to them, there are endless benefits to what boundaries can do.

They help you protect your peace! 

In some extreme cases, you might have to seek therapy in order to take care of some past traumas so that you can fully move forward with your boundaries. 

Going to therapy is a major step in the right direction when learning how to invest in yourself as a woman.

Side Note: Do not feel ashamed if you need to seek therapy for anything and everything. Valuing your mental and emotional health is an amazing thing to do.

Did you say your affirmations today? Even better, did you write them out?

This is such a great step to take while getting those boundaries together. This is your daily dose of emotional encouragement for every aspect of your life. 

A few good ones are:

• I am worthy of everything I desire.
• I am happy, healthy, and radiant,
• I am grateful for the amazing opportunities coming my way. 

How to invest in yourself as a woman through loving yourself and those who love you 

Way #2 to Invest in Yourself as a Woman: Love on You and Others 

When was the last time that you had a little bit of me-time? Investing in yourself as a woman is that exactly investing in you.

Spending some quality time with yourself is just as important as anything else on your to-do list. This is a great place to start when you are not feeling good enough.

Quick Hint: You are more than enough! 

Remind yourself how amazing, talented, smart, and beautiful you are; love yourself harder. 

Learning to love your own company will help you out in so many areas.

This will help you understand what you have to offer and it will help you value what type of company that you keep around you because your space and time is valuable. That lead to loving on others.

Try making time for the people that you love and who love you back.

We know that you are busy, okay? But make the time because it will help you out in more than one way to help you out of this current neagative feeling. 

They are your support team when you have the right people around you. It takes a community to support an adult as it takes a village to raise a kid.

How to invest in yourself as a woman through pampering yourself by doing something you love (exercise)

Way #3 to Invest in Yourself as a Woman: Pamper Yourself

Health is wealth, ladies! We have all heard this statement before, and that is because it is true.

Taking time for your physical being is something that we can all be a little better at. It connects back to your mental health, too so that you can be happy and healthy all around 

It doesn’t have to be anything too vigorous, honestly it can be something as simple as going for a quick walk and getting thise steps in. 

Thirty minutes a day is ideal but if you can only fit in five to ten minutes go ahead and start there.

Investing in yourself as a woman is beyond your physical health too, make sure that you are also taking care of our skin (the biggest organ). 

When you look good you feel good. So go ahead and take the time to pamper yourself. It helps boost self-esteem. 

You can do so by trying out one of the following:

• Take a bubble bath 
• Get dressed up just because 
• Do your makeup and take pictures 
• Do your skincare routine

When it comes to routines ideally you will have a morning routine that hypes you up for the day and a night time routine that releases the stressor from the day and prepares you for restful sleep.

This goes beyond a skincare routine. In the moring you want to fuel yourself up with something healthy to eat, drink some water, put on a great outfit and invigorate your mind and body for the day ahead.

Ohh and don’t forget to shower.

The nighttime routine calms you down. Think about your day and be grateful, soak you stress away with a bath, write or read something inspiring.

Doing these things put you in control of your day.

How to invest in yourself as a woman through trying new things or reading (grow skillset)

Way #4 to Invest in Yourself as a Woman: Expand an Area of Your Life

Something that you can always be working on when it comes to how to invest in yourself as a woman is by trying new things. 

This can be something like learning a new skill set. Or just learning in general.

You can obtain these new skills by:

• Taking some courses
• Reading books
• Just trying something through Youtube university

Gaining a new skill boost confidence, gives you more things to talk about and could even potentially be monetized for some extra coins through a promotion or otherwise.

This is another task that can also help boost your self-esteem, which combats you not feeling good enough right now. 

Trying new experiences is a great way to push you out of your comfort zone.

Adding a new skill or trying a new experience can also become a new hobby and could potentially lead to new connections. You never know who you might meet when you take on these new adventures.

New experiences open your mind to new ideas and new thought processes simultaneously helping you grow as a person overall.

How to invest in yourself as a woman through finances and a side hustle

Way #5 to Invest in Yourself as a Woman: Get to Know Your Money 

Okay, now, let’s get our finance together! You know how stressed you get when your money isn’t right. It is important when you are learning how to invest in yourself as a woman also to learn about how to invest in your finances. 

Need some extra money? Start a side hustle.

Don’t know where your money is going? Make that budget. 

Trying to save for your future self? Begin investing. 

We can sometimes think that taking about money is a taboo topic, but if we don’t talk about it or at least take a look at it how will we know where it is going, what it is doing and who it is doing it with?

We won’t!

Money is not a taboo topic especially for women. We are past those prehistoric times. 

You might want to make more money by getting a promotion, going into a new career, or start your own side hustle. 

Woman want to be financial independent and nothing is wrong with that. It helps current you and future you just the same. 

It may seem hard at first to get a grasp on your money, but take it one step at a time, your future self will thank you for it.

Final Thoughts

Learning how to invest in yourself as a woman even when you are not feeling 100% is tough but completely achievable!

This is an uphill battle but it is worth the fight when you come out on the other side a champion.

Investing in yourself as a woman means taking the time to care for yourself and make sure that your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual needs are met. 

You want to invest in yourself so that you can enjoy life and be prepared for the future. 

You are doing great and don’t let anybody tell you anything different. 

✍️ Written by Tammyra Hardison