We’ve all seen and heard that becoming a high value woman is about attracting a man… NOPE!

They wish! Being a high value woman means living life on your own terms, attracting abundance, and creating the life you desire.

The bonus is being irresistible to both men and women. Here are 10 habits to embrace to become a high value woman and attract your dream life.

Embrace Your Authenticity

Embrace your uniqueness and don't apologize for it.

Be true to yourself and live according to your values, beliefs, and desires. When you're true to yourself it's easy to be you without the exhaustion of trying to be someone else.

This authenticity will make you more confident and attract the right people and opportunities into your life.

Try out new hobbies and find experiences in new things that open your world to help find  the authentic you.

Cultivate Self-Love

Self-love is the foundation of being a high value woman. It starts with self-awareness, self-acceptance, and taking care of your mental, physical, and emotional well-being.

When you love yourself, you become less dependent on external validation, and more confident in your own skin.

That does mean caring about your appearance but not for the approval of others  but for your own.

So take that pilates class, follow a guided meditation, get a massage and read a good book that allows you to fantasize your deepest desires! 

Set Clear Boundaries & Keep Your Standard High

Set clear boundaries and say "no" to what doesn't align with your values and goals is a sign of self-respect, and it helps you prioritize what truly matters.

Keeping your standards high will allow you to save yourself the heartache from disappointment of people not treating you at the level you don’t deserve.

When your standards are high and boundaries are set you protect your time, energy, and well-being. 

Develop a Growth Mindset

A high value woman never stops growing. Adopt a growth mindset and embrace challenges and failures as opportunities for growth and learning.

This mindset will help you overcome obstacles, grow as a person, and achieve your goals.

The best way to do this is to read and watch videos of self development.

You have to break your old way of thinking down because it will create unnecessary road blocks along the way.

Surround Yourself with Positive Influences

Have you ever heard the saying “ you are the 5 people you hang around the most” I hate to break it to you but, it's true.

So surround yourself with people who support, inspire, and challenge you. Seek out relationships with people who share your values and vision, and who bring out the best in you.

Here’s a tip: if you're still hanging around the same places you normally go to and are not meeting the right people it's time to find new places to go.

Practice Gratitude

Practice gratitude daily by focusing on the good things in your life. Express appreciation for what you have, and you'll attract even more abundance and positivity into your life.

This is so important because it's easy to focus on all the things going wrong. Take at least 5 minutes in the morning and at the end of each day and really think about all the good things you have in life that you're grateful for.

When you focus on all the good you only can give off and receive more good things. You will radiate positive energy!

Invest in Personal Development

Personal development is key to becoming a high value woman. Read books, watch youtube videos, attend workshops and conferences, and work with a coach to improve your skills and knowledge. Investing in yourself will help you grow and reach your full potential.

Here are some must reads to get you started: Alchemist, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Think and Grow Rich, The Compound Effect, and The Subtle Art of Not Giving F#ck.

Pursue Your Desires

Pursue your desires and do what brings you joy! If it’s the freedom to travel whenever you want, look into your career and see what you can work towards to make it a reality.

When you're passionate about what you do you'll attract success and fulfillment into your life. Create a vision board!

Put pictures and words to describe your desires of what you want to be, do, and look like then place it somewhere you can see it everyday and ask yourself daily “What can I do today to get me closer to my desires?”

Understand Your Feelings and be in Control of them

You are aware of your feelings, how you feel and how you react to others. You choose to be proactive rather than reactive.

You never allow others to control your emotions and have you step out of the person you choose to be. You are able to explain your feelings without getting too emotional because you speak from a place of understanding.

Trust the Journey and be CONFIDENT!

Know that everything happens for a reason, and that life is a journey filled with ups and downs. Be confident in who you are and don't let others bring you down. 

Trust that you're exactly where you're meant to be, and that everything will work out in the end. It sounds so easy to do but it's one of the hardest.

Trust the process and the rest will follow.

If you want to attract your dream life then you have to be willing to change, do things differently and sometimes be considered “delusional”.

But you're only delusional until what you're working on becomes a reality.

So to become a high value woman, it requires embracing your authenticity, cultivating self-love, developing a growth mindset, investing in personal development, surrounding yourself with positive influences, practicing gratitude, setting clear boundaries, pursuing your passions, in control of your emotions, and trusting the journey. 

Embrace these habits and attract your dream life.

✍️ Written by Elizabeth Santa Cruz